Hey guys, I apologise for the lack of consistency. Me and blogger are not the best of friends right now but yeah here is the next blog. In moments of introspection, I've realised that if you don't know who you its is very easy for others to walk all over you and to take advantage. No matter how strong you fool people you are and no matter how many times you tweet that you're heartless, someone out there will find a way of walking all over you. S ociety, in general, wants us to be nice people. When we’re young, we’re often reminded why it’s a bad idea to be too stingy, too aggressive, too mean, or too arrogant. Unfortunately, society generally doesn’t remind us that being too nice can be just as bad, if not worse, than being mean. As a result, many of us have a hard time saying no when asking for a favour, and even more of us are ashamed to ever consider putting our own needs first. There are number of different ways to ensure you're not mistaken for a door matt.
NEW YEAR, NEW MINDSET !!! So this is my very first blog and to be honest I didn't know what to write about until I realised that it's nearly the end of the year. In introspect, I realised that I made a lot of mistakes this year that put me in a number of messed up situations and getting out of those situations was really tough. Despite the hell that this year has brought to me on a plate with a side of piping hot tea, I have learned a number of different and important lessons that now prevent me from making similar mistakes in the future. yep, you guessed it! I'm talking about men. See I'm not going to fall into the stereotype and start screaming "men are trash" because sis I am tired. See in this blog. I am going to help y'all out. I don't want you guys to make the same mistakes I did in this big 2017 when finding love😁. If you guys follow these simple steps that I'm giving you guys you will be fine.I hope:). Let's get straight